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      <image:caption>A revival of “The Women” in 2008 featured a superstar cast of great actors - and a script and direction that was drained of all the astringent observation that had made Clare Booth Luce’s original script so strong, honest, wincing.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Clare Booth Luce had no compunction about revealing what women can get up to in secret. Still from the 1939 film “The Women” based on her hit play</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>For all its cleverness, watchability and terrific performances, “The Devil Wears Prada” may have endorsed the myth that all you have to do to survive a bully is meet all their ridiculous demands. After all, Andy (Anne Hathaway) does have to walk away from her boss (Meryl Streep) to find fulfilment and balance. Workplace advisors often admit that, as things stand today, the only way to outwit a bully is to leave.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Cleo’s first issue in 1992. It was a raging and unexpected success.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Ita Buttrose had had high hopes for me and I did my innocent best to fulfil them. Photo: YouTube</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>In the late 1970s, Kerry Packer was terrifying. Photo: InsideStory.com.au</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The 1950 film “All About Eve” inspired the name of this blog about evil, All About E. Eve, played by Anne Baxter on the right, stops at nothing, hurts anyone, deceives everyone, especially those who trust her, to get the status and heights she believes should be hers. Lead photo: Margo (Bette Davis) congratulates Eve on her award, gained at awful cost. Film stills, courtesy moviestillsdb.com</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>If you’re very lucky, you will never come across an Iago in real life.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“I cling on to Dad as we watch 14 men hobble along, feet chained …” writes Habiburahman in his memoir. Photograph by Sophie Ansel, courtesy Scribe.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Repressed in one’s own country, a refugee in another. It never stops. Habiburahman wrote his memoir with journalist Sophie Ansel. Since 1982, millions of Rohingya have been forced to flee after being left “stateless” by their own government. “The incubation of a genocide” as one reviewer put it.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>We humans are letting these industrious, and hugely important, little creatures down. Photograph by Alfonso Navarro, on Unsplash</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Billions of bees were vanishing; no-one knew why but bee pathologist Denis Anderson had one idea. Photograph by Hubert Mousseijne, on Unsplash</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Bright yellow canola will bring out a bee’s bad temper. Photograph by Meric Tuna, on Unsplash</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Honeybees go to work early. Photograph by Jonathan Faber, on Unsplash</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Politicians have gotten involved and many arguments are about where the bees originated from. Photograph by Mladen Borisov, on Unsplash</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Scientists see problems through their own specialty, says Denis Anderson, leading to misdiagnoses. Photograph by Revolt, on Unsplash</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Industrialised bee farming has taken its toll on bees which naturally forage widely. Photograph by James Pritchett, on Unsplash</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Iris wanted to be remembered as she had been before she was ill, that is “engaged with life”. She even once re-arranged then President Bill Clinton for a photo shoot, to his obvious amused bemusement. His security detail were waved away.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Friends remembered Iris as “effervescent”. Her theme was always Spartacus; standing up against evil. Photo: Jimmy Estimada, courtesy of Ying-Ying Chang.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>One version of this story appeared in the Sunday magazine of the Sunday Star-Times newspaper in New Zealand.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Attempts to “bury” Chang’s work were thwarted by her fierce defence and, after her death, this documentary film.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Iris Chang’s book was published on the 60th anniversary of the largely forgotten massacre; it caused a furore. She was 29.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>An image that accompanied publication of this story in The Weekend Australian.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Iris Chang at a 1998 book signing. Intense and aggressive attacks from Japanese militarists affected her deeply. Photo courtesy of Ying-Ying Chang</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>A family portrait for a birthday. From left to right, brother Michael, father Shau-Jin, mother Ying-Ying, and Iris. Photo courtesy of Ying-Ying Chang.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Sometimes it feels as if clutter just breeds. Photograph: Ashim D’Silva, on Unsplash</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Decluttering is exhausting and brain-challenging. An encounter with a Saigon street gave Susanne Thiebe of LessMess a valuable set of insights.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“If you keep everything, nothing is important,” argues LessMess founder Susanne Thiebe.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Author Maggie Alderson created a romantic plot around the art of decluttering.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The aim is not a home with no less, just less mess. Otherwise, we’re talking about a “symptom” says one psychologist. Photograph: Mikael Cho, on Unsplash</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>There can be peril in a decluttered work space. Photograph: Norbert Levajsics, on Unsplash</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Carol Posener of Get Organized: “There’s just a lot more stuff to deal with now.”</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>A new start in life, but let’s keep something of the old. Photograph: Joanna Kosinska, on Unsplash</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>On the left, the least competent reveal their over-confidence; on the right are the results for the most competent, and how they perceive themselves. Image: courtesy David Dunning.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The rise of “lucrative twaddle” is designed, wrote Francis Wheen, to “consign us all to a life of darkness”. Image: Elijah O’Donnell</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The powerful are better at lying; the powerless at lie-detecting.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Even luck is statistically a more important ingredient of leadership talent than confidence, argues Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“Everybody is obfuscating,” writes Abby Ellin in her book “Duped”. Image: Aaron Fedor, courtesy Hachette Australia</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Author Anand Giridharadas invented the “Aspen consensus”: winners must be challenged to do more good, but never tell them to do less harm. Image: Mackenzie Stroh, courtesy of Anand Giridharadas</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Richard Neutra’s 1946 Palm Springs house gets the real billing in Slim Aarons’ iconic photograph. Slim Aarons: Women (Abrams, $US85)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Pierluigi Serraino's book The Creative Architect: Inside the Great Midcentury Personality Study explores the conclusions of the 1950s UC Berkeley study into creativity. Author Serraino finds them in contrast to some of the contemporary ideas about innovation. Published by The Monacelli Press, available in Australia from Penguin, $65.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>William Wurster was a prominent architect and also a fellow academic at UCLA, Berkeley. His clout helped Donald MacKinnon in his approaches to architects to take part in the IPAR studies. Courtesy The Monacelli Press</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The architects invited to take part in the IPAR study were known for their modern work, but the actual study took place in this mock-Tudor building. Courtesy The Monacelli Press</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>By the late 1950s, America had switched its focus to creativity, and the thinking processes involved. Image courtesy The Monacelli Press</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The mosaics test threw up interesting differences. Above is Philip Johnson’s mosaic. Eero Saarinen went for all white. Courtesy The Monacelli Press</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The architects were asked to rank their fellow attendees on creativity.. Philip Johnson was one of seven who unashamedly put himself first. Courtesy The Monacelli Press</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Pierluigi Serraino: “Eras of great creativity are a function of the environment.”</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Founding and early IPAR staff. Donald MacKinnon, the leader of the team of UC Berkeley psychologists, is in the centre of the centre row. Courtesy The Moncelli Press</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>IPAR staff rigorously tested out seating positions for the interview part of the study before the subjects arrived. Courtesy The Monacelli Press</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The bullshitter only wants to persuade; he or she doesn’t care about truth or lies, writes Harry Frankfurt in “On Bullshit”</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>As bullshit jobs grow in the service industry, real service jobs - like waiters - have remained static. Waiter please? Photograph by Jason Leung</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Is it called a job or a “role”? One key way to spot if it’s a “bullshit job”. Photograph by Gez Xavier Mansfield</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>If a consultant starts talking about solutions to “wicked problems”, make sure you also listen out for the warning diiiiiiing! Photograph by Steinar Engeland</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“Be generous” urges C.J.Frick in Be The Person Your Dog Thinks You Are, with drawings by Liza Donnelly (Nero Books, $19.99)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Impossible not to a better, nicer person after reading C.J.Frick’s book (Nero Books, $19.99)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Animals know when to walk away and live another day. Drawing by Liza Donnelly from Be The Person Your Dog Thinks You Are by C.J.Frick (Nero Books, $19.99)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Image by Molly Dyson, from (Definitely) The Best Dogs of All Time by Jadan Carroll (Scribe, $24.99)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>In November 1975, Esquire dropped a bombshell on New York society.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>In 2016, news magazine Newsweek took on the issue.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Esquire was aimed at a certain kind of man - and suddenly it was running a story on menstruation?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Anne Frank wrote wistfully of wanting her periods to start in a diary she kept as she and her family hid from the Nazis. The diary has sold millions of copies since her father had it published in 1947. Anne Frank died in Bergen-Belsen just months before the camp’s liberation.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Author Abby Ellin got taken in twice. In a row. She then wrote Duped - Compulsive Liars and How They Can Deceive You (Hachette, $32. 99). Photo by Aaron Fedor, courtesy of Hachette.</image:caption>
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